{"id":289,"date":"2005-10-17T22:45:41","date_gmt":"2005-10-18T03:45:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/slidingconstant.net\/?p=289"},"modified":"2025-09-20T17:57:14","modified_gmt":"2025-09-20T22:57:14","slug":"entry-63","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/slidingconstant.net\/?p=289","title":{"rendered":"Jeff is Dancing?!?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

When Amy \u201couted\u201d me yesterday in her post<\/a>, it served as a good reminder that I should post about one of my newest interests: contra dancing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

The story behind this one goes back quite a long way. Amy and I were in New Jersey attending the wedding of two friends (Matt and Kara for those that know them or have heard us talk about them). Unlike the weddings to which I\u2019m accustomed, theirs had a full out party as a reception. It was a blast. However, it included lots of something that I had NEVER been comfortable with: dancing. Amy tried her best to pry me out of my chair for at least one dance, but I absolutely would not budge. The thought mortified me, mostly because I had absolutely no idea how. It actually made Amy quite unhappy, and I never forgot that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A few years later, I suggested that we could go to a beginner ballroom lesson being offered by the dance club over at UAH. It was a decent first thought. It was an activity to get us out of the house that we could do together (something we needed more of). The other idea was so that the next time it came up, I wouldn\u2019t be glued to my chair. In practice, it just didn\u2019t work out. I was clumsy and just didn\u2019t do a good job of leading, and the rest of the group (largely composed of the instructor\u2019s students at UAH) were moving too fast for us. We just didn\u2019t enjoy it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I decided at some point that the best way to make it better was for me to try to learn some on my own first. I could build up some confidence and a little technique, then if we wanted, Amy and I could try again. In the meantime, I had heard from Aaron and Joyce about contra. They said that it doesn\u2019t require any footwork to speak of and that the figures are explained for each dance. Overall, it sounded like a good place to start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Time to pause for explanation\/description. For folks that live in my part of the world, probably the easiest way to describe contra is that it has a lot in common with square dancing. Instead of being in squares, though, contra is arranged in long lines. Rather than rehashing what others have done much better, I will leave it to the interested student to learn more. Following are some good links:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Contra Dance Primer<\/a> (archived copy on archive.org<\/em>)
What is Contra Dance?<\/a> (\u201dDefinition 0\u2033, by the way, is spot on)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Back in July, I decided that I was going to give it a shot. I looked up a local group and drove out to their next regular dance. I was incredibly nervous (especially going by myself), but I was determined for once not to chicken out. I showed up early for the beginner workshop that they do before every dance, and I began to get really<\/em> worried. It was a lot of information all at once, and I was sure I hadn\u2019t remembered all of it. In the break between the workshop and the first dance, I seriously considered sneaking out with my tail between my legs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am I ever glad I didn\u2019t. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll tell the end first and say that I almost skipped<\/strong> as I came out of the building later. Happy happy endorphins! In short, it was great fun. It\u2019s one of those things that really is best learned by doing. What helped with that was that the group there that night (and every other night I\u2019ve gone) was incredibly friendly. I bobbled and mis-stepped frequently, but nobody seemed to care. I usually got a smile and a quick suggestion or maybe sometimes a tug or a shove in the right direction. The point is that I was having so much fun, I didn\u2019t care that I was messing up. At any rate, I quickly figured out enough of the basics that I was actually able to keep up. I didn\u2019t stay very long. The dances tend to get progressively more challenging as the night goes on, and I wanted to make sure I stopped while I was still enjoying things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve been out to three more events since: once with Aaron and Joyce with their regular group in Atlanta, and twice more with the local group. The funny thing? I\u2019m apparently not too bad at it. I learn more every time I go, and I have actually received compliments. It\u2019s quite an ego boost. I\u2019m also beginning to recognize people who show up regularly at the local dance, which is also cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would recommend this to almost anyone. As a matter of fact, any of the locals are welcome to come with me when I go to the local dance night. The dances are put on by the North Alabama Country Dance Society<\/a>, and they normally meet on the first and third Saturday nights of each month at the Faith Presbyterian Church gymnasium (corner of Whitesburg and Airport). I\u2019m planning on going to the November 5 dance. If anyone is interested, drop me an email, and I can give you more details.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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